Welcoming a new baby into the world is the most monumental experience. With this monumental experience comes a wave of emotions, sleepless nights, and countless memories. Enter the concept of the "push present," a delightful tradition that has gained popularity in recent years as a way to honor the incredible journey of parenthood. But what exactly is a push present? Where did the idea come from, and who should give one? Most importantly, what makes the perfect push present?
Whether you’re new to the idea or looking for the perfect piece of jewelry to mark this life-changing moment, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know about push presents.
What Is a Push Present?
Though a push present has traditionally been a gift given to honor the strength and effort of a new mother after she’s given birth, today we know that push presents can be gifted by anyone wanting to show love and recognition to any new parent. The idea is to make the new parent or parents feel celebrated and cherished after the intense journey of childbirth - no matter how the child entered the world.
The term “push present” may sound modern, but the idea of gifting new mothers isn’t entirely new. However, the trend as we know it today didn’t start to become widely recognized until the early 2000s. With social media and celebrity culture bringing attention to the tradition, it has since grown in popularity, particularly in the United States.
What is the Origin of Push Presents?
While the origins of gifting new mothers can be traced back to various cultures, the term "push present" itself didn’t really take off until relatively recently. But let’s be real - Napoleon gave the Napoleon Diamond Necklace to his wife Marie Louise upon the birth of their son in 1811, so we’re talking a long time.
Photo: "Napoleon Diamond Necklace" Smithsonian Institution
But of course this is not 1811 and we’re not all Napoleon and Marie Louise. So in the modern day, we have social media platforms like Instagram and before that, blogs to thank for the momentum push presents have gained. By the early 2000s, push presents had cemented themselves in modern parenting culture, with more parents opting to mark the occasion with a meaningful gift.
Who Can Give a Push Present?
Though traditionally associated with fathers gifting mothers who give birth, push presents are by no means restricted to this. All new parents deserve recognition for their journey into parenthood. Today, anyone can give or receive a push present. We know that a family takes on many different forms, and the only real thing that matters is the love found within. Whether you’re the co-parent in a same-sex relationship, an adoptive parent celebrating your first child, or a grandparent eager to honor your child’s journey into parenthood, the gift’s meaning is what truly matters. The beauty of a push present is its ability to mark this precious time with love and appreciation. Etiquette expert Pamela Holland says that there are no standards when it comes to push presents - that these gifts are far too intimate for something like rules.
Adoptive parents, for example, may also appreciate a gesture to commemorate the arrival of their child, while parents in same-sex relationships might want to honor each other’s role in the child’s life. After all, the experience of becoming a parent, regardless of how it happens, deserves celebration.
When Should You Give a Push Present?
Push presents are typically given after the baby is born, hence the name "push" present. However, there’s no hard-and-fast rule about timing. Some prefer to give the present in the hospital shortly after the birth, while others wait until the new family is settled at home. If the idea of timing feels stressful, remember that the moment the gift is given is less important than the sentiment behind it. A push present can be a lovely surprise any time in the first few weeks (or even months!) after the baby’s arrival. And don’t let the name fool you - as we’ve noted before, push presents aren’t just for someone who has “pushed,” but anyone who has the joy of welcoming a new baby into this world.
How Do You Choose a Push Present?
Now that we’ve covered the basics, let’s talk about the fun part: what exactly should the push present be? Jewelry has become one of the most popular choices, and for good reason. It’s timeless, personal, and can be worn for years to come as a reminder of that special moment. At Trumpet & Horn, we offer a range of stunning push present ideas, perfect for any new parent. Let’s break down some great push present ideas, keeping in mind comfort and style.
Rings
A ring is one of the most classic push present ideas, and it can be incredibly meaningful, especially if it incorporates the baby’s birthstone. A birthstone ring is not only beautiful but also symbolic, making it a deeply personal gift.
However, before you rush to buy a ring, consider that new moms often experience swelling in their fingers and hands postpartum. Because of this, if you are gifting this push present to a birthing mother, rings may not fit quite right in the early days. Consider this because you might want to size up or even choose a different piece of jewelry if swelling is a concern.
We love the idea of a three-stone garnet ring or a diamond eternity band for push presents! The garnet’s rich, deep hues represent passion and protection—perfect for a new parent starting this exciting journey. The three stones symbolize the past, present, and future, capturing all the cherished moments along the way. Meanwhile, a diamond eternity band is a sparkling symbol of unending love and commitment, ideal for celebrating this beautiful milestone.
Bracelets
We love this Cartier Trinity bracelet as a push present! This iconic piece combines three interlocking rings symbolizing love, friendship, and fidelity—perfect for celebrating a new chapter in life. This bracelet has an elegant yet modern design which ensures it’ll complement any outfit, and add a touch of timeless sophistication to any everyday look. Plus, with Cartier’s renowned craftsmanship, this bracelet is not only stylish but also durable, making it a lasting reminder of this precious milestone. It’s a chic, meaningful way to show your love and admiration.
Necklaces
Necklaces are another fabulous choice for a push present, especially since they are less affected by postpartum changes like swelling. Whether you choose a simple pendant or a more elaborate piece, necklaces can be a great option that new parents can wear immediately, no matter how they’re feeling physically.
A sapphire and diamond pendant makes a stunning push present. Sapphires are known for their deep blue beauty and are said to symbolize wisdom and strength—perfect for a new parent embracing this life-changing adventure. Paired with diamonds, the pendant is a very special piece that serves as a reminder of this very special day.
Earrings
Earrings make for a great push present option, especially if the new mom loves accessorizing but might not feel comfortable with rings or necklaces in those early postpartum days. Simple diamond studs or birthstone earrings can add a touch of sparkle without being intrusive, and they can be worn daily or saved for special occasions.
We love a classic diamond stud for a push present - the timeless beauty of diamonds symbolize enduring love and add a bit sparkle to everyday life—perfect for a new parent who deserves a bit of shine. Diamond studs are versatile, easy to wear, and pair effortlessly with any outfit, from casual days to special celebrations. Plus, they’re low-maintenance yet endlessly stylish, making them ideal for a busy parent on the go.
Other Push Present Ideas
If rings, necklaces, and earrings aren’t quite hitting the mark, there are other thoughtful push present jewelry ideas to consider. Charm bracelets, for instance, can be customized over time, allowing parents to add new charms to celebrate milestones in their child’s life. We also love the idea of a chic watch that marks the passing of time.
A Rolex watch is the ultimate push present, blending absolute luxury with meaning. After all, what better way to mark this life-changing milestone than with a symbol of time? A Rolex celebrates all the incredible moments that led up to this one and the countless memories yet to come. It’s not just a watch; it’s a reminder to savor every second with your new little one. It’s a timeless gift for a timeless love, perfect for the journey ahead!
How Much Should I Spend on a Push Present?
When it comes to the question, "how much should I spend on a push present?" there’s no right or wrong answer. The best push present is one that reflects your love and appreciation, no matter the price tag. Some opt for luxurious gifts like diamond earrings or designer jewelry, while others choose more modest but equally meaningful items, like a simple birthstone pendant. At the end of the day, it’s the thought and effort behind the gift that truly counts.
Trumpet & Horn offers a wide range of push present options across different price points, so whether you’re looking for something extravagant or understated, there’s something to suit every budget.
Wrapping It Up
A push present is more than just a gift — it’s a way to celebrate the incredible journey of parenthood. Whether you’re considering a birthstone ring, a delicate necklace, or sparkling diamond earrings, the right push present jewelry should reflect the joy and love of this new chapter. With thoughtful options from Trumpet & Horn, you can find the perfect piece to honor this life-changing moment, no matter who the lucky recipient is. We'd be honored to help you find the piece of your dreams, just give us a ring!
So, whether you’re searching for push present ideas or simply wondering what is a push present?, the answer is simple: it’s a meaningful way to celebrate the beauty and strength of becoming a parent.